It's definitely hurts terribly. Mine just happened 3 days ago, and now I write this article on "How to Get Over a Break Up." It's really not easy for me to write this article, it still feels very painful, but I hope this will help you.
First, let me give you my story. You probably are not the same type of fracture than mine, but we all have the same problem. Our heart hurts. It hurts so much that I sometimes think I could every crazy moment.
Mine lasts only 5 months plus, and she with me four days before Valentine's Day. We started very quickly at first, but the love was dying off very fast as well. Maybe it's been in love, I do not know, but I do not regret it. We are both lovers of peace means that we rarely fight. But as the days go by itself, likely to get less and less love, or should I say, that is the attraction is less.
And you know what the reasons for the breakup? She said that she has no love for me. And she is very loving, tired, tired of caring for a person. That really hurts me for the last 4 days and I still love her.
First, let me give you my story. You probably are not the same type of fracture than mine, but we all have the same problem. Our heart hurts. It hurts so much that I sometimes think I could every crazy moment.
Mine lasts only 5 months plus, and she with me four days before Valentine's Day. We started very quickly at first, but the love was dying off very fast as well. Maybe it's been in love, I do not know, but I do not regret it. We are both lovers of peace means that we rarely fight. But as the days go by itself, likely to get less and less love, or should I say, that is the attraction is less.
And you know what the reasons for the breakup? She said that she has no love for me. And she is very loving, tired, tired of caring for a person. That really hurts me for the last 4 days and I still love her.
I cried out one in one of the last few days and I think it was the memories of her, the places we have been, intimate things we have done all the promises they have made, sometimes caught I actually found myself listening to her recorded voice breaking and thought of all the opportunities that I made, so they do not break with me and why they should want could.
Actually, she is suddenly shattered kind to me and I really have no reaction time. I did not see this coming, because for the past few weeks, everything seems ok.
I could not get the fact that she's gone, I see my handphone every morning in the hope that they return, she would come back to me, sometimes I even thought I can still to her during the night, which I each day for discussion of the last 5 months. It's like an emotional void in my heart and I am afraid to be alone.
Are you with me? It seemed to me that I haven get over it today and I get through most of the night.
HOW?
1. I'm sure you know as well as I that it is really painful and it is up to you to actually solve emotions in your heart. The first thing I had a decision to stop feeling hurt.
2. Please do not escape from reality by the things that will hurt you, because you just ease the pain temporarily. And then you will still feel painful. I tried my best to forget about her through games, but it's really no benefit at all, I still think at the end and cry after the games.
3. What you need now are friends and relatives-people who want to talk to you, some can relieve your pain, some may not apply to those who will look.
4. Please cry. It helps to cry. If you want to cry, please cry. Hug someone in your area and to cry. You feel better when you cry rather then to suppress your feelings. Talk to your friends, relatives, parents.
5. You will feel better if you know how you feel and tell her what you want, you can choose to write, whether they send or not to send her after you write it. I felt myself after writing what I want to say it without tears.
What was this really helps me ... I realized that my friend probably did not want to break up with me because she loves me not, although they say so, but because they can not stand the pressure of dealing with me and her studies at the same time. There is too much a burden for them.
Suddenly I understood how stressful they need to feel sad and I naturally stop. I began to think that this is perhaps not our time to be together, she is having a hard time coping with their studies and can not with the stress so it's time for me to go. Maybe we will not be together, we might be, but if we keep going, it is so unfair to us both. Instead of feeling and enjoy the love and time, it may break inventually dealing with the stress. If I really love her, I understand them and let them go. If one day we are fated to be together, we will be together, but not now. We may now broken up, but maybe we are still together, married five years later? Who knows? But to give up all hopes on the waiting list for their return, you will feel better that way.
It's not really fair for you to feel hurt. Let it go, it is a burden for you as well. Let it go, and you will feel better. It's not about how long that cure you, it's about yourself, heal your broken heart that can. You go through this experience stronger and more mature after this experience.
